How to find help
In short
- We support men and women affected by domestic abuse, and their families.
- We will believe you. We will not tell you what to do.
- We also help people who want to change their own behaviour.
- Call us on 01632 960 648. In danger now? Call 999.
If you are at risk of immediate harm, call 999.
If you cannot speak, call 999 and then press 55 when prompted, so the operator knows it is a real emergency (this works from mobile phones).
Choose the support that fits
Support services
For people experiencing or recovering from domestic abuse, and their families. Peer mentors who have experienced domestic abuse themselves, 1-2-1 or in weekly coffee and activity groups.
Prevent services
For men and women who are at risk of offending, are currently offending, or have a history of offending, and want to change. Practical 1-2-1 support and behaviour-change programmes.
LGBTQ+ and domestic abuse
Abuse happens in LGBTQ+ relationships too. It is ok to ask for help and help is available.
Practical help for families
Affordable school uniform, hygiene products and prom outfits through the Uniform Swap Project.
Our approach
Example Trust provides support for victims of domestic abuse and their families, both for men and women. We provide support with the belief that you have the right to make decisions over your own life. We will not tell you what to do, but we will help you whether you want to stay in the relationship or leave.
From experience we understand that the impact of domestic abuse does not stop when the abuse comes to an end. The impact of domestic abuse can affect our lives and prevent us from recovering to live the life we want to lead. This is why we also provide support for those recovering from domestic abuse.
Not sure if it’s domestic abuse?
If you answer yes to any of these questions, get in touch with us for some advice:
- Are you frightened of your partner or a close family member?
- Are you being prevented from seeing your friends or family by your partner?
- Are you being prevented from having any control over your finances?
- Are you being subjected to physical abuse such as being bit, hit, kicked, or punched?
- Are you being called names, being insulted, belittled or unfairly blamed for things?
- Are you feeling fearful, tearful or anxious about being in your own home?
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A holistic approach
A holistic approach is needed to address domestic abuse, one that includes victim and offender support services, education, and community involvement. A comprehensive plan to stop domestic abuse must involve cooperation between local governments, policing support, social agencies, and community organisations.
Children and domestic abuse
Children also suffer from the impacts of domestic abuse and each response will be different and can impact on how a child develops into adulthood. Read the NSPCC’s advice on domestic abuse.